The Gwen, a Luxury Collection Hotel, Chicago

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InterContinental Chicago Magnificent Mile

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Our Wedding

How We MetKatie loves hosting euchre nights for her friends, and one evening, a friend brought along some coworkers — including Jake. At first, Katie just thought they were new friends; it took a little while for her to warm up. By the end of the night, though, she found herself crushing on the charming new guy… and texting her friend to admit it.Jake, on the other hand, had been making moves all night — some obvious, some that completely flew over Katie’s head. Despite the missed signals, sparks were undeniable, and by the time the night ended, both of them knew something special was brewing.First ImpressionsKatie immediately noticed how charismatic and confident Jake was. She loved that he was genuinely interested in getting to know her. Jake, on the other hand, was smitten from the start — he whispered to his friend, “Wow, she’s beautiful,” and was drawn to Katie's fun, outgoing energy. Honestly, everyone wanted a piece of her attention that night, but Jake knew he had found someone special.When We Knew It Was Something RealAbout eight months into their relationship, Jake’s mother passed away. It was still very early in their relationship, but Katie felt a deep pull to support him through this incredibly hard time. They joke about having a “trauma bond,” but going through such raw, challenging moments together made them realize: if they can survive heartbreak side by side, they can survive anything.Our Favorite MemoriesLife together has been full of love, laughter, and just the right amount of chaos, thanks to their little family: Paul, their Dalmatian, and lulu, their mischievous kitty. Katie has loved learning about Jewish traditions, and Jake gets so excited for Christmas — he even surprised her with a Christmas tree!Saying “I Love You”Jake may have said “I love you” a few times after a drink or two, but finally said it sober — making it officially memorable. Their love has always been equal parts genuine, funny, and full of warmth.Us in Three WordsPassionate, balanced, driven. That’s them. Passionate about each other, balanced in how they support one another, and driven to build a life full of love, laughter, and shared adventures.What We Love Most About Each OtherKatie loves the security Jake provides and how he always works to make her feel heard and loved. Jake admires Katie's intelligence and dedication to building a strong foundation — for their relationship and their future family.Looking AheadWhat excites them most about married life is doing life together: building a home, celebrating accomplishments, and exploring the world side by side.

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Jordan is Kaitlyn’s oldest partner in crime and steadfast biggest supporter. When she’s not chasing her little boy Jack through the house, she’s out exploring Atlanta’s best coffee shops, parks, and hidden gems. Her calm confidence and knack for turning chaos into comfort make her a grounding, joyful presence in Kaitlyn’s life.

Jordan Mickiewicz

Madison is the youngest sister in Kaitlyn's family. As the youngest, she’s mastered the art of cozy living, usually found curled up binge-watching Bob’s Burgers with her two black cats, Booz and Tony. She brings easy laughter, steady support, and just love to every family event. 

Madison Bontrager

Brittanie is the newest addition to the family, and she’s already filled our days with laughter and lasting memories. Always up for a good time, or a cozy movie night. She’s the one who whips out board games and turns every gathering into an instant celebration. Her easygoing spirit and warm energy make her a perfect fit in our family. 

Brittanie Helgeson

Rylee and Kaitlyn share the classic middle-child bond, first forged through childhood wrestling matches (with Kaitlyn enjoying her five-year advantage) and strengthened after Rylee moved to Chicago. Since then, Rylee has been Kaitlyn’s go-to supporter and the biggest help with wedding planning. When she’s off duty as a faithful bridesmaid, you’ll find Rylee gallivanting around Chicago, causing harmless havoc wherever she goes.

Rylee Bontrager

Jack is Kaitlyn’s first nephew and the Bontrager family’s little ball of sunshine, spoiled with attention and adored by everyone. When he’s not practicing his aisle strut as our ring bearer, you’ll find him outdoors playing with bubbles or relaxing in his favorite lawn chair, soaking up the chaos and the sun.

Jack Mickiewicz

Paul is Kaitlyn and Jacob’s favorite spotted family member. When he’s not cuddled up with mom, he’s chasing frisbees at the park or swimming at the beach. He’s thrilled to be part of his mom and dad’s big day and can’t wait to celebrate.

Paul Bates

Matt is one of Jacob’s co–best men and never shy about sharing a strong opinion, asked or not. They bonded in college as fraternity brothers and roommates for nearly four years, then stayed close through late-night restaurant outings, spontaneous trips, and a brutal summer business program that somehow became fun together. Matt’s honest advice and loyalty mean he’s the person Jacob always leans on, especially when it’s time to celebrate.

Matthew Dempsey

Mike is one of Jacob’s co–best men and a close friend since high school. He’s one of the hardest-working people we know, somehow balancing a demanding schedule with an equally full social life. Beneath the tough act, Mike is a softy at heart; loyal, generous, and always there when it matters. Even with Mike in New York and Jacob in Chicago, distance hasn’t changed that he’s family: a brother in every sense.

Michael Rocco

Zach is Jacob's older brother and he has taught Jacob just about everything he knows about video games, anime, and most importantly how not to be an annoying brat, which Jacob definitely was at times. As they got older, their relationship grew beyond just Jacob being the annoying little brother, into something much more where they can genuinely count on each other for anything.

Zach Tokson

Ethan, also known as Eco, Pablo Escobar, “Escheme,” and several other nicknames, was once the new kid at Jacob's high school who quickly worked his way into their tight-knit friend group. It didn't take long for him to become one of Jacob's closest friends. Now a lawyer, Ethan brings sharp legal know-how and a ready sense of humor to every situation; we're grateful to have him in our corner.

Ethan Cohen

Brian and Jacob became fraternity brothers and roommates from sophomore year until Jacob moved in with Kaitlyn, effectively stealing him away. Jacob couldn’t imagine his wedding without Brian by his side. Brian is one of the most genuine people we know and likely holds the record for most movie quotes ever. He’s now a therapist, which feels fitting (and a little ironic) since he was already everyone’s go-to for advice. At social gatherings he quietly dodges impromptu therapy sessions (usually started by Kaitlyn) but always brings his laughter and wit to the room.

Brian Baruck

Wedding Party

We kindly ask that men wear a black, gray, or navy suit or tux.Women are invited to wear a floor-length dress in a jewel-toned color.Black dresses are reserved for the bridal party only - thanks for helping us keep their moment extra special!

Kaitlyn & Jacob

Kaitlyn & Jacob

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